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WHAT IS YOUR TEMPERAMENT??

A person's temperament is how they behave and represent themselves based on personality traits and impactful experiences. Temperament remains constant and serves as a means to help you determine how you will react to situations. It's a way to recognize consistent personality traits. So, is it possible for temperaments to change as we grow? It is likely that one temperament surface over others.  Do realize that not everyone falls on one end of the spectrum.. Sometimes we could have one type of temperament appear more dominant than the other.  What are the Four major temperaments ? Sanguine :  These personality traits tends to be more extroverted, outgoing in general . People with this traits tend to love more open conversations and social gatherings. They are more likely to be the star of the crowd and enjoy communicating with large amount of people .  The flaws of these personality traits is that they tend to be dismissive and forgetful easily due to the fact that they speak a
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CHANGE IN RESPECT TO PARENTING

 Hello everyone  So today we're going to be talking about a topic which I don't usually speak about. we'll be focusing on change in respect to parenting. I think this is a topic that most of us don't like to talk about or engage in because most of us are in the constant pursuit of making money. So today I just want us to be reminded of the fact that they are more priorities to life that also needs attention. Now let's dive into the topic What does change means to you? we all have our definitions of change and what it has done to us, what experiences we might have had that has made us to whom we have become. Today will be focusing on change in respect to parenting. I'll try to be as brief as possible because I only know as much about this topic and would love to share my and knowledge with us. I believe change is the ability to see beyond your present self. It is an innate feeling of deciding to be a better version of yourself . We have all changed in some ways i

A SHORT NEUROLOGY OF BOREDOM

The human brain is a powerful tool. Always on, the brain is thinking and dealing with decisions and stressors and subconscious activities which makes us responsive to things .  But that moment comes when we begin to feel lost out of sight, lacking the feeling to continue. It usually feels like an extensive period of idleness and despise for anything. It's a feeling we all associated with BOREDOM . Like it it not, we all will have some experiences of this  term depending on individual emotional levels. When analyzing the brain wave with the use of an encephalogram ,  results, shows that the right frontal lobe is responsible for activities and concentration levels in the brain.  The right frontal activity is increased when people are feeling more negative emotions or becoming more anxious. When we are bored the brain most times induces sleep as a pattern to while away time or think less. This Sleep control is influenced by a variety of cognitive and emotional factors eg causing a low

POEM OF ECSTASY...

My Darling Desibel... She caressed my skin..  Allowing me the pleasure of her soft cherry blossoms.. The coolness of her breath... Like the gentle breeze of the winter evenings... The taste of her lips  Like the sweet soft droplets from an olive fruit... Oh Desibel save me! For I have become lost in your soul... Intoxicated in it's beauty Finding my own sense of meaning... Feed me with your love For I cannot find no other such ... Our season has come...  for I am dying for your passion. Give me breath...for I seem to suffocate in denial... I have chosen to set my heart free My emotions... I cannot withold.  Your beauty I cannot comprehend You are my desire Desibel ... Take me into your world For our time has come...           My Darling Desibel...                                                    _Lola

WHAT YOU DO WHILE YOU'RE WAITING

 Many times we get stressed out when things are not forthcoming like we've expected . I feel that way alot but now I just realised something What exactly is waiting ? Waiting dosent necessarily mean an absence of expectations ...it is a preparation for the expected future.  It is what you do while you're waiting that counts the most. I learnt something a while ago " Your destiny is probably too massive for you to handle that why you need to be prepared for it." What is God teaching you to appreciate this coming season? You need to look around you. What potentials do you have that you've kept in the barn for too long? Utilize them! If you've started , keep pushing. Nothing good comes easy I tell you. I'm also putting in the work. That doesn't mean I don't have bad days, it means I keep my head up even when it's stormy. Because I have a vision and I just trust the process. I'm writing out of love and desire to help others grow. This isn't

LIFE IN A PAPER

  LIFE IN A PAPER …  It’s all about us…  Just me and my fainting thoughts… Afraid it all goes away.. Give me something to hold unto  A little ray of hope …pray tell..  It’s like my dreams..  slowly crashing down in illusions..  My heart screams for hope!   My eyes hurt from tears…  God do something…  It’s getting unbearable…  Watching my Faith slowly crumble in weary  Let me smile once again…  Let me laugh into my future..  Save me before I go numb  Is anyone hearing me?  Why does it feel like a transparent glass?  Trapped in my own world  Wishing you’d listen  Why is it taking so long…  Now I write my life in a paper like I used to as a child  Those letters you’d always reply..  I am drowning and I feel it..  My heart is sinking and I know it..  Please save me from this insanity  My life is in a paper .. little words carrying deepest meanings…  My words go fainter each minute  Now I await your reply.. like the letters we once shared….                                                   

WITH ME LOVE IS EASY

  LOVE IS EASY   With me love is easy …  You ain’t ever have to feel uneasy…  Just gonna be us in our world of fantasy…  Always care for you so don’t you feel anxiety…  We’ll be each other’s .. write our Psalm of ecstasy..  Taste my lips delicacy… feel my touch competency..  You'll be mine… I’ll be yours..  Sharing emotions… desiring our world’s …  Drown me in your love… let me feel your warmth. .  Love is easy…  Lets make it breezy ..  We might be complicated…   But we’ll make it simple…  It’s our Love story..  we get to paint the pictures…  LOVE IS EASY.. LETS WRITE OUR STORY  I’LL SHOW YOU HOW .. it’s our love language..                                                                                                                                     _Lola